Let it go😪

Frustrations😓and every day pressure😪
Like do you ever feel like //.No.No. enough ✋stop.World stop\\ Yeah that feeling.This world has a way of presurring us sooooo muuchhhh,we don't see a way out.You feel like you are suffocating in a room,dying and no one is seeing.Screaming in the streets and no one is paying attention.Drowning in a pool of water and people just keep adding water-Yeah that kind of frustration.
Frustration for greater grades..
Self satisfaction...
Pressure from teachers
Your friends
Family
Patners...
Lovers...
Work...
School...
Everywhere.....
And it all gets too much and you have a heavy back.Tears roll from your eyes and you didn't even intend to cry..
Buh no one ever realizes...Its okay not to be okay..And its okay not to be perfect...it's okay to have things not going your way...ITS ALL OKAY.ITS NORMAL!
The minute we all realize..Its okay to have bad grades..you can do better..I swear you won't feel Frustrated..
The minute you realize You can't always be fine...You won't feel Frustrated by people..Cause it's a personal decision...
LET IT GO ALREADY. let things be....you can't have control over everything....
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Frustrations make is give up on things we've yearned for..Frustrations make us not see greater things...Frustrations will make you break and crush..
From the pressure from the outside buh I'm telling you you can let it go.
Mistakes happen you know..and no one is perfect...People go wrong too...Stop staying in your past baby you don't live there anymore..stop being frustrated over things you have no control of..
I mean if you stab a man now..he looses his life..Then you just stand there and get frustrated..will the man come back to life?And for the rest of your life keep remembering what you did and breaking because of it..Will that bring him back to life?No.😑

We've lived our lives being frustrated by things we can't do anything about...
Look...
Maybe its time to just let things be.
You feel like your friends and family don't listen to you anymore?Take a deep breath..Its okay...let it go..you can't change them..find new solutions.
You feel like your grades are so baad?Well its okay...now you've learnt..Take a deep breath stop being frustrated about it..Let it go and work for more..

With a clear mind..we can all do much more..
Life is too short to live frustrated and all..
So take a deep breathe and let it go..
You'll be fine in the end you know.❤

Our Lifetime through👻

😀Remember that time..A few years back when life seemed fair and everything was good.
Remember that time when mum asked you "What do you want to be" And your mind rang"Doocctorr!! Engineer!!Pilot!!" Remember that time?
That was the time you'd put on anything and ran out to join friends and play.That time you laughed so hard you even cried..that time life was just that..
Then what happened?
You grew up😥
And someone made you feel like you are not good enough..
Someone said you are ugly and it sank so deep..
Someone called you a slut and that mark was never rubbed...
As children we all had great visions ...we all wanted to be a someone..we all were proud of the people we were...
Then impurities entered our lives and the people we are today are nothing close to what we've always wanted to be.

Ever looked at a mirror and wondered "Where is that person we used to know? Where is that girl that was so happy the world wondered.."Where is that boy that made dad very proud he couldn't stop talking about him"

So here is the answer.
That person is still there..somewhere there ...In that darkness that little person you know is still there..You jus gotta find that person.You buried that person years ago when the world didn't appreciate much..When people didn't see what you have to offer..You buried that person when you didn't feel you are worth it...
Buh baby you are.You are everything you wanna be..
You look at yourself and ask if the 8year old you would be proud of you today and what you've become.

The dreams you dreamt years ago.What happened to those?That time you believed someday you would make a great footballer..Then?You let friends hold you back..Circumstances prevent you from reaching greater heights...Situations make you quit..and slowly your dream died..you didn't even notice..You lost it..
But heeyyyyy❤❤❤❤❤
Its not too late..You are still living today right?
It's not thaattt late..
You can still adjust.
Go back to being that child.
With hope and ambitions
Dream and visions.
A mission for a greater future..
That person hasn't yet died...the person you used to be till people told you you can't .
..
Its not too let to soar..
Break free like an eagle...
The other day someone very special to me sent me some article..
And it had so much about breaking free..it really got to me.
We've been held so much by people..Circumstances.. Places...situations...family and even friends ....
And somewhere there..
We lost that child we used to be...
We got corrupted by personalities ...poisoned by the world we lost ourselves ..

So just like the children with dreams we used to be...

Let's make a reality❤

Dear shy people😌

So I was jus thinking... The other day someone told me aki I wish I was like you you are so courageous and I was like oohh thank you😌that was really cool and nice buh hey...look...we can't all be the same like ..We can't all be courageous we can't all jus walk to the front and show people what we are made of...We are all different and that's the most beautiful part about everything.
Honestly I find shy people nice...like being friends with shy people is cool 😂 cause no one knows how crazy they can get only when you get close is when you'll realizeooohhhwww so now this one is a crazy one😂😂💪.
I've met many shy people with crazy talents...and they just seat on them simply because they are afraid.pleassee Bring out your best...you don't have to be courageous for you to be liked ...you jus have to believe in yourself and the shit gon work jus right...I have this friend called TEMINAKAVELWA💕 I swear when you look at her you can't even imagine she can talk but she is the one shy person that showed me selfbelief will take you places.She is so talented its not even funny...she's a shy person yes..buh she started her own YouTube channel....No one will see her doing it while she's recording but the whole word will see her out there..cause she believed she could do it.
You see...stop sitting on it jus cause you're shy...no no no...it don't work that way..bring out your ideas...in a way you are most comfortable with...Yes have people you admire buh never want to be someone else...Cause you'll keep on thinking you are not as good...
Like if you are a photocopy of someone else....who will be the original you?
You don't have to be courageous for you to succeed ...you jus have to be confident💪
Self belief is important💕
You do you🎀bring out your ideas💕
Bring out your you.
And people will be amazed at how much you can do🎀
Like do you ever wonder....How people will look at you if you jus show them what you can do..well stop wondering and bring it on💕
There is only one you and no other from the photocopy machine please❤So show us what You is made of..and stop wondering how being someone else feels like..
Stop asking yourself if people also look at you and want to be you....
💕Cause true friends will like you for who you are💕

j

self love crisis

oh the self love crisis is almost every teenager's cry.i mean today almost all of us go about crying about self worth self identity,self love,well today i tell you,you aint the only one.personally...people think i'm this really strong person,people think i don't face problems own my own...people think its so easy for me well..its not.

i've met many people who say they are not worth a dime...so then why do you exist anyway? looking at a mirror and you hear loud whispers and soft screams..."ugly" "too thin" "flawful"

 "worthless" lemme tell you today its all in your heaaaadddd!!! if you dont find worth in yourself how on earth do you expect others to find worth in you.lemme tell you a story....on christmas day,2013 i got a chicken pokes attack ..so i didn't know at first so i kept scratching and scratching my face till i was told not to anymore cause i'd get permanent scars..i healed after a few weeks...but then each and every time i would go out to meet my relatives and friends people would be looking at me so much ...when i asked i was told its your scars on your face...you have no idea how much that hurt me....i couldn't look at myself in the mirror for a while...like almost the whole of my form one life..i was crushed and it was so bad..i hated myself i hated how i looked i hated everything about me...till i decided i had had enough and it was just a little bit too much for me....

i didn't need a psychiatrist or a motivator or anyone to talk to me.....it was all  me and that wasall i needed.

loook,i know not everyone of us has that strength and i know its so hard..but if you cannot accept yourself the way you are..do not expect other people to do so.

if you look at a mirror and all you can see is failure disappointment regret and all those otherthings,i tell you today...it does not have to be that way...you are really great...and  you need no one else to  remind you that.

look at your strengths many of us are blind to that

look at your achievements don't forget that

look at how far you have come...

think of how far you wanna go...

i don't promise it will be easy...no...it will take a lot of courage and so much strength..you just have to look deep within...remember it is all in your head...

love yourself no matter the flaws...no one is perfect anyway....appreciate the person you are...

in the end...remember you need you...and you cannot live without you....

start a journey today...the journey about yourself⤻❤

Society

Societies' views have corrupted many of us.Today we term ourselves "thick" "slim thick" " skinny" Society has labelled us so much we've lost ourselves somewhere there.
Let me give you me,for instance.
My mum literally cries that I should eat more cause I'm too thin and I don't have enough meat on me but then going back to school and everyone is like"OMG!Your body is gooaalllss!!" You know leaves me wondering...what am I really? People look at you and see so many different things ..and at times we all focus so much on that then we forget who we are..
Today someone in the streets stopped me to tell me" you should get medicine for your acne"

Then I was all depressed and I start to wonder "do people just walk and look at me and all they see is acne and acne scars"
Then I text my boyfriend and he tells me "You are so pretty even with your acne scars"
You see? What I'm talking about?
Society has this way of making us feel inferior...like we are not worth it anymore..
But then here I tell you..
It's all in your head.
Block society! Avoid mediocrity!
Its all just a little too much for our little teenage minds.
Society has labelled people"the weird one" "the huge ass"" the pretty one " and so much more ..
Let's do this..
Let's forget what society is...
So many people will say so many things..
But you can choose how to see it..
Like how one can look at a glass of water..it's either half full or half empty..it's all up to you..
Choose what you want..
Choose the perception you want.
Embrace yourself...
Stop society